John Staley's obituary reads like a roadmap of post-colonial development work done right — or at least done with serious intent. Born in Epsom, educated at Marlborough and Cambridge, he had every credential to build a comfortable career in British institutions. Instead, he and his wife Elizabeth drove overland to Pakistan, earned PhDs studying mountain communities in northern Pakistan, and spent the next three decades trying to make development work actually work. His Oxfam tenure (1967–1980) spanned the period when large NGOs were figuring out whether they were aid pipelines or capacity builders. Staley landed on capacity. As field director for south India and Sri Lanka, he oversaw funding for hundreds of local and international voluntary agencies — a role that required judgment about which organizations deserved trust, not just which crises deserved money. His response to the 1973 Maharashtra drought, feeding more than 20,000 people through a work-for-food programme, earned him an MBE in 1974. The pivot that defines his career came in 1976 when he discovered experience-based training — the idea that small groups learn about organizational behaviour by analyzing their own group dynamics in real time. He and Indian colleagues founded Search, an organization built around these methods, training people in development work across India. This was not the safe institutional move. It meant leaving the Oxfam mothership for something unproven, locally rooted, and harder to explain on a CV. From 1982 until retirement in 1999, he taught development studies at Selly Oak Colleges in Birmingham, translating field experience into pedagogy. Three books came out of the decades: Words for My Brother and People in Development (both 1982), and Enticing the Learning (2008). The titles alone suggest someone more interested in relationships and process than in grand theory. The retirement years in Great Malvern — the U3A, the garden, the small wood he and Elizabeth bought as a project — carry the quiet signature of someone who understood that stewardship scales down as well as up. Elizabeth died in 2019. John is survived by their children Eleanor, Joanna, and the obituary's author, and grandchildren Isabelle and Freddie. What stands out across the arc is consistency of method: find local knowledge, build local capacity, get out of the way. It's an unfashionable approach in an era that rewards platform-building and personal brand. Staley's career is a reminder that some of the most generative work leaves the smallest personal footprint.